Message 668 of 972

HEL NO! BAD LADY CAN'T GO!

Something upset Badlady404 so bad this morning that she left Eons all together. The usual bitch shit that goes on all the time. But she was very vunerable this weekend and she made everyone aware. However, some women who are obvious jealous of her, couldn't stop their crap long enough to be a good Sister.

I'm asking each of you to help me and Jamma54 keep this group going until Badlady feels better. I know that she's not a quitter - she's just having a bad time right now. And we should be there for her. But for the grace of God go anyone of us.

She has always had problems with Diva-wannabees. But I am telling you that, in almost 40 years, I have never seen a woman, black or white, survive what Linda Lou has survived in her life. Yet she still goes on and she still has a helping hand for her fellow man. Her favorite saying is "If I've got a dime, you got a nickel" and she means that. There's nothing that she won't do for a person. And when she needed help, all she got was her posts taken down (because she asked for support to get through her husband's murder anniversary on the 25 in the middle of a birthday celebration at Meeting in the ladies room!). Then when she apologized for not knowing about the "party hardy", the group moderator blocked her PMs! While I was PMing that same woman, teling her that Lou had nothing but love and respect for her and that Lou was in tears when I last spoke to her, SHE BLOCKED MY PMs! WOW!

We can't reach her via PM now because she really shut her account down. But here is her personal email address: lindaou404@comcast.net.

Help us get her back. And give up some love for a sister who is hurting.

Nancy
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BOOM IT UP!
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about 1 year ago
I'm a man and I can see that this is stupid. I got a lot of benefit from monitoring this group. You are all special ladies and Bad Lady was the best. Keep it up and get her back!

about 1 year ago
im staying in because Ms. BadLady helped me when another woman tried to run me out, making fun of me. Ms. BadLady got on that woman so hard about hurting people here.. And now someone has hurt her.. We can;t let than happen. boom it up!
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about 1 year ago
I tried the e-mail ,It was returned as invalid
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about 1 year ago
Dear Divabird,
I read Badlady404's story the other day and was very touched by it. Let me explain a little, I'm a white male, that has lost his wife to cancer in February of this year, his oldest daughter to cancer 17 years ago, and his youngest son to suicide 5 years ago. I have no idea what she has gone through, but her story and her compassion touched me greatly. I felt she was one of the strongest ladies I have ever heard of. She and my wife would have been twins when it came to strength of character. My wife came to terms with her own death so she could help us deal with it. Badlady sounds like the same type of person.

I am truly saddened by the fact someone didnot consider the grief you feel when you loose someone so dear to you. You do not get over it ever, my wife always said you develop a new form of normal. That is what I am searching for and I am sure that is what Badlady is wanting also.

Please pass this along to her and tell her I am praying for her and hoping she can regain that strength I heard in her words I read.

I send this with all my heart and soul.

Bob

about 1 year ago
I sent a letter to the address but it was returned so I added and L for lou and so far so good.
I had just begun a friendship with Badlady after being moved by her response to a letter she wrote another person trying to help them. She sounds like such a strong lady I wanted to get to know her better and I told her if anything ever happened to me I wanted her on my side! I'm not sure what all this is about but I'm so sorry to see such a wonderful person leave Eons.
Barbee

about 1 year ago
I don't know Bad Lady but she needs to tell them to go to and please come back I would like to meat her. dink62
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about 1 year ago
I AM SO SORRY BADLADY404 LEFT. I'VE BEEN IN THE GROUP A SHORT TIME. AND BADLADY HAS WITH STOOD MAJOR DRAMA IN HER LIFE BUT NOT FOR THIS SH1T. I HOPE TAKING A BREAK FROM THE DRAMA HERE WILL REPLENISH HER STRENGHT FOR BATTLE ONLY THE CREATOR KNOWS. PEACE TO US ALL! LET THE HEALING CONTINUE, SO WHEN SHE RETURNS WE CAN ALL LAUGH OUT LOUD!!!
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about 1 year ago
I agree with you one doe not know how someone feels till they have walked in their shoes. As ladies and friend we need to treat each other and everyone eles as we want to be treated. Have A Bledded Day.
Nancy
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about 1 year ago
I'm new to the group and have no idea what happened but let me say this, no matter what the case or cause when one loses a member of a group the dynamic changes. It sounds like this lady was a lovely influence who happened to be having a bad day....isn't that why we join groups, to share not only the good but the bad in our lives. I'm sorry your friend has left.
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about 1 year ago
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