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PARENTING-IT NEVER ENDS

Some of us have kids still living at home, both minors and-- majors. Some of us are custodial grandparents, and others are part-time or full-time caregivers for the grands. Even if your kids are grown and gone, this is the place to talk about it. Let’s face it – we all know that kids never really leave home as long as you have laundry facilities and a fully stocked refrigerator. So, whatever your situation: Empty nest? Too full nest? Babysitting for the weekend? Tell us about it.

Everyone is welcome h

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PARENTING - IT NEVER ENDS


Some of us have kids still living at home, both minors and-- majors. Some of us are custodial grandparents, and others are part-time or full-time caregivers for the grands. Even if your kids are grown and gone, this is the place to talk about it. Let’s face it – we all know that kids never really leave home as long as you have laundry facilities and a fully stocked refrigerator. So, whatever your situation: Empty nest? Too full nest? Babysitting for the weekend? Tell us about it.

Everyone is welcome here who has ever dried a weeping eye, bandaged a boo-boo, sat through an endless third-grand talent show, courageously handed over the car keys to a newly-licensed teenager, or been thrown up on by an infant. You don’t have to be officially a parent. Aunt, uncle, doting cousin, or best friend neighbor, you qualify to state your opinion, give advice, ask questions or vent about other people’s children.

Just a couple of ground rules so we are all on the same page.

1. Graphics. You may post a graphic IF it is small, funny or poignant, and on topic. However, you MUST include a comment with it, and your comment must be more than “This is funny.” Graphics alone are not conversation. If you think it might be just the tiniest bit offensive? It probably is, so don’t post it.

2. No fluff. No fuzzy kitten good mornings, no glitter-graphic good nights. If you feel compelled to share a holiday graphic, it MUST be in First Reply.

3. All videos must be in First Reply.

4. It goes without saying that you will not post anything offensive, hurtful, or attacking. That will get your post pulled and your sorry butt booted out of here in a heartbeat. I NEVER sleep. Bwahahahahaha.

Marti in Mexico

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How to Parent When Your Kids Are Divorcing

I am sure I wrote about this in this group, but can't find it. So I will tell you again. Skip over this if you already read it.

Two of my three daughters are getting divorced and it all came to a head this past week.

In both cases, the husbands had been seeing someone else. In one case, he wanted a divorce...asked my daughter for it, said he was in love with this other woman. In the other case, he is vowing that it is all over and begging to not be thrown out.

They are in New Jersey. I am in Mexico. I am a bit at a loss as to what to do. What I have been doing is listening only, and not voicing any opinions about the SILs. I like both of them, always have. I am trying to stay neutral while appearing to be supportive and caring of my daughters.

Boy is this tough. And you think being a parent ends when you kids are in the forties. Guess again.
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Computer Time

How much time do your underage kids or grandkids spend on the computer every day?
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My five-year old grandson....

just returned with his family from a vacation to Hawaii. He is going through the "where did it come from" phase and is learning about the dead things that we humans eat. He was very perplexed while eating out at a steakhouse that steak is "dead cow" meat and can't understand why it is called "steak" and just insisted that it should be called "dead cow". Oh, dear, he had the restaurant patrons either laughing or wanting to eat something else. Thinking of it as "dead cow" might turn many off about eating beef.
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Death in the Family

I guess many of you know that I lost a dear friend this week to suicide. I wrote about it in my blog.

But it has got me thinking about how we handle deaths in our families. Have you had to explain this to your young children or grandchildren? How did you handle it?
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BEING A GRANDPARENT AND A PARENT ROCKS

No matter what our politics or choices are in iife I can't imagine how hard it is to have the joyous anticipation of a baby or grandbaby slandered or judged on the national media.

I have been blessed with three beautiful daughters and so far one grandson and every minute, hour, day, week, etc I am amazed at how blessed I am!

I try to enjoy every precious minute (yes I have to shake myself to do this at times) and hope you are all as blessed as I am.

My grandson calls me "Bella"--Italian for beautiful. I requested this nickname as I wanted to be sure that for the rest of my life at least one male would always call me beautiful. :}

What a Bella life I have and I have Bella children and a Bella grandchild.
DallasJazz
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Mama Knows

Borrowed this today.

A Listen to Be Learned!
Mrs. Ravioli comes to visit her son Anthony for Dinner... Who lives with a female
roommate Maria...

During the course of the meal, his mother couldn't help but notice how pretty Anthony's roommate was. She had long been suspicious of a relationship between the two, and this had only made her more curious.

Over the course of the evening, while watching the two interact, she started to wonder if there was more between Anthony and roommate than met the eye.

Reading his mom's thoughts, Anthony volunteered, 'I know what you must be thinking, but I assure you, Maria and I are just roommates.'

About a week later, Maria came to Anthony saying, 'Ever since your mother came to dinner, I've been unable to find the silver sugar bowl.

You don't suppose she took it, do you?'

Well, I doubt it , but I'll email her, just to be sure.' So he sat down and wrote:

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hello

Mostly just popping in to say that today--no one is driving me crazy, no one is mad at anyone else, no one is shirking work, no one is pouting or whining, no one is moody or distant, no one is teasing anyone else.

All in all family time is good right now, and I just wanted to throw that out there to say how wonderful that feels.

Embracing the good days.
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Welcome Dallasjazz

Hello and welcome to the group. Tell us a little about yourself, and jump right in on any of the ongoing conversations.
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Welcome jbjovibaby & northsea!

So glad to have you both join the group.

it's a great place to post anything you want to share about your kids, grandchildren or any other topic about parenting!

Can't wait to hear from you!

Starrybright
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Grateful For Friendship

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