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Yes I am married! In fact married for over 40 years. However, I work 65 miles from home and I hate the drive. So, I elected to stay in the city close to work thus I am away from home Monday through Friday. And, that makes me lonely. Any ideas?

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Suprised !

I'm suprised by 2 things re this group. Only 2 women seem to write something ?
Only a few members on here ? I know there are a lot of people unhappy with their situations and wish they could change or at least find a little adventure.

I'm a single guy. Need to chat sometimes ? reach out !

Char

posted by picmenc

Sleeping

I believe that sleeping with your spouse can be very intimate. I always loved sleeping with my husbands.

I used to sleep with his arm around me and my head on his chest.

I sleep in a king sz bed on the total opposite of him. Sometimes he tries to put his feet to touch mine. ANother way we used to sleep together. I used to let him even though it bothered me because I felt as a wife it was the right thing to do. But he would wake up crappy and leave without talking to me. Now I tell him to move his feet.

The other day his sleep apnea kicked in. I put my whole body over him ready to do CPR. He was angry... angry..angry!
can you imagine? No sorry no nothing.

posted by chrty

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Minority or Majority

Do you think there are more lonely people in marriages or are there only a small few?

If there are more or many than a few, do you think the majority of lonely people are afraid to speak out about it?

posted by Charles1950

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Faith Hill & Tim McGraw - Let's Make Love

This is what I want. How about you??? Any other songs that say what you want??? How you feel???

posted by Musiclover

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What makes you stay? and dont be hard on youself!

At first it was a fear of being alone. Then it was my child. Now it is the age of my child. I also got into trying to fix what is wrong then, I found that I got used to just being.
I am for all of you!

posted by chrty

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Hey can you guys read this ????

If you can I wanted to say HAPPY FOURTH of JULY. Everyone else on there groups are doing it!! I know I know we are not doing it.(LOL) But I am happy for all of you

posted by chrty

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Dancing with the Stars Widow

We have been together since 1980, married in 1989. She is American born Chinese. I am still the fun, affectionate, caring, silly guy I have always been. My wife has been drifting away further and further. Some years ago she embraced ballroom dance to the point that it has replaced me entirely. Maybe it's all the men who have their arms around her. If ballroom dance is on TV I should just leave because I'm invisible and tuned out anyway (it's like a guy during football, I'm not a sports addict, no football parties at my house). Forget the advice that I should get into ballroom dance, that's just not going to happen. After work she takes ballroom classes and/or teaches them. Burning the candle at both ends she has no energy or time for me at all. We haven't had sex in months and then months ago it was once (and I'm good at it, she likes it, I always make her climax) - hey, I'm a healthy guy, I can cook, I do my own laundry, sex is the only thing I cannot legally buy. She refuses to go with me to a counselor (no, not to cure her of ballroom dance but because she has become a messy roommate and no longer my wife and best friend). We don't fight unless I push her hard to help me fix our relationship, suggesting we get help. She likes her world of work and ballroom dance and being only a roommate, no sex. Maybe she's get'n "it" somewhere else. I guess I'm not looking for advice, only looking for other ladies who have wandering hubbies and the ladies are looking for hugs, snuggles or more. Here it is, Saturday night and I am home alone again as usual.

I am 49, white, hit the gym regularly, fit and in shape, I'm mellow, healthy, clean, D&D free...and bored. I volunteer in a hospital emergency room two days a week and work as a computer consultant for my own slow business several days a month. Got plenty of money. Just no one to be with. And sex. I've even begun thinking of, dare I suggest it, looking into escorts. Never done that before.

So, If you are near Gaithersburg, Maryland and are lonely, need a hug...or more...Shoot up a flare. Let's hit the gym, have a nosh, whatever.

Be prepared to share a photo if you'd like to meet, I'll respond with mine. We'll swap email addresses for that.

Thanks for your time.

Lonely, non-flamboyant, non-gay, non-ballroom dancing, hubby.

posted by LovingControl

What did you today?

I went cherry picking. I took my family to FRIDAY'S. It was not the best food. It used to be better. I was not with my husband and I felt it was meant to be this way.
I thought of all or rather most of you today and wondered what all of you did today? where you lonely? sad? uncomfortable?
Almost 3 yrs ago I went to the movies by myself and I cried because I was so sad. My husband did not even notice when I got home. I asked GOD right there that I never feel this way again.
So now how was your day?

posted by chrty

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What CLICHE' desccribes you or your situation?

It could be a cliche about your situation or who you are or where your going.
I would like to know

posted by chrty

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BiPolar

Today is our 25th anniversary. Sometimes I wonder just how we made it this long. He is bi polar, but refuses to get help. There is "nothing wrong" as usual. Things go up and down here all the time. I know there are couples out there that is similar situations. How do you handle it?