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frayne's profile

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Anybody here do the big D after 50 or 25+ years of marriage ?

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nwhiker's profile

New member

Hi I just joined this group in hopes of finding something to base the decision on. I am not looking for anyone to agree with me or anyone's shoulder to cry on but after 15 years of marriage I have ... | posted by nwhiker
jccbeach's profile

Join a local support group

That's the best advice I can give everyone: divorced, contemplating divorce, going through divorce - join a local support group. While I thought I had prepared myself for divorce, after it was fina... | posted by jccbeach
1 reply - last reply: "Thanks for your suggestion. I have... more" ~ sweetsheila
Leuchtturmdame's profile

Not quite there....

HI all. Not sure if I should be in this group. After almost 33 years of marriage I am now going through a divorce initiated by me. We have been separated for five years. With my youngest child away... | posted by Leuchtturmdame
1 reply - last reply: "I too am divorcing after 24 years... more" ~ MegGilbert
Sweetu4ea's profile

Hi I'm new

Hi everyone, I thought this group was made for me. I'm 50 and recently divorced. Last Valentines Day my husband of 25 years with no forwarning told me he wanted a divorce, We weren't even fighting.... | posted by Sweetu4ea
1 reply - last reply: "No advice,but I feel like the letter... more" ~ B1948
KathysGifts's profile

25yrs and over 50

My husband is filing for divorce he said, after 25yrs and I am 56. We had no love but still. The way it was done. He wants to be my friend. Welllllllll that will have to be thought about. I am not ... | posted by KathysGifts
1 reply - last reply: "Sounds like he is 'tired' of faking... more" ~ CheerfulGiver53
MegGilbert's profile

Should I go or should I stay?

I want to go. Have wanted to go for ages but 2 kids kept me in a marriage that has no love. We’re roommates definitely not soulmates. We’re OK friends but not good friends. He doesn’t talk – says h... read more | posted by MegGilbert
1 reply - last reply: "Hi My name is Kathy. It sounds like... more" ~ KathysGifts
frayne's profile

Experience

Has anyone any insight into what it is like to divorce after 25+ years of marriage. Good, bad, indifferent. Things you would do differently, given the chance ? | posted by frayne
1 reply - last reply: "Currently in the process....25 years... more" ~ Claire56
nothappy's profile

I am free.......

For the first time in 42 yrs I am finally free. I just wish I had done this years ago. I got the news yesterday the judge granted the divorce. I don't think the ex knows about it yet but he will so... | posted by nothappy
GiannasGrammy's profile

Hello Everyone

I hope you dont mind if I join your group. Seems like a small one, guess that means theres a lot of happily married Eon members ( or loads who wont tell their story). I was reading other messages a... | posted by GiannasGrammy
7 replies - last reply: "I like your reply, CheTan; it was... more" ~ marybeth3

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