About DIVORCE AFTER 50

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Divorce after fifty. Sometimes it is after a long marriage. Sometimes it is not the first divorce. But no matter the circumstances, it is always a wrench and painful, both emotionally and financially. This is the place to tell your story, ask for advice, give advice and share your support with others.

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MartiInMexico's profile

A Little About YOU

I would like to get to know our members better. How about telling us something about yourself. What is your situation? Are you currently divorced, in the process of divorcing, or contemplating a ... | posted by MartiInMexico
23 replies - last reply: "My husband of almost 30 yrs and I... more" ~ txhornsgirl
anakris's profile

Should You Both Use the Same Lawyer?

Most people when they are divorcing have their own lawyers. But, every now and then you will hear about a couple having the same lawyer for their divorce. Sometimes they think they are saving money... | posted by anakris
1 reply - last reply: "we used the same lawyer and then a... more" ~ dlairs
rickpa1957's profile

Please Help Me

This is the toghest thing that I've ever had to do but I guess that's appropriate. I've been married for 30 years and sadly, I'm just not in love with her anymore. We have grown apart. She is one o... | posted by rickpa1957
7 replies - last reply: "Remember that the title of your post... more" ~ Janke
Bluebulldog's profile

I need help

Married for 28 yrs and he thinks he wants his freedom. Several of his friends are going trough the same 'male thing'. I'm so sad and hurt and scared. Starting couples therapy soon. He doesn't belie... | posted by Bluebulldog
8 replies - last reply: "Yes, your right about being in a... more" ~ dlairs
MartiInMexico's profile

Married?

Blazed girl #1: So what I'm saying is: 50% of American marriages end in divorce and the other 50% end in death. Blazed girl #2: There's no other way for them to end? Blazed girl #3: Oh, I forgot:... | posted by MartiInMexico
1 reply - last reply: "LOL ... living in New York must be... more" ~ BarbInBend
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How To Adjust to Being Single Again

- Get to know yourself. When a couple has been together for a while, the choices they make on where to have dinner, how to decorate their home, their personal choice in clothing, or other decisio... | posted by MartiInMexico
1 reply - last reply: "Someone just told me the other day... more" ~ anakris
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Are You A Victim of Emotional Abuse?

Emotional abuse in a marriage is such a covert form of domestic violence and abuse that many people aren’t able to recognize they are a victim. A spouse may have a feeling that something is wrong. ... read more | posted by MartiInMexico
3 replies - last reply: "Very good description of emotional... more" ~ anakris
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Questions You Should Ask Yourself

Ask yourself these questions if you are considering divorce: 1. Do you still have feelings for your spouse? Have your feelings diminished or, are you feeling powerless over a problem in the marri... | posted by MartiInMexico
1 reply - last reply: "Good points to ponder! " ~ anakris
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Marital Problems That Often Lead to Divorce

Most marital problems are typical. In other words if you are married, you will, at some point be faced with pretty much the same issues that most married people face. There is no true way to gaug... | posted by MartiInMexico
1 reply - last reply: "That's a pretty good checklist as to... more" ~ anakris
dlairs's profile

Keepsakes

I was just going through some photos for my kids and came across my wedding album, wedding/engagement cards and love letters from when my ex and I started dating. We were together 25 years and hav... | posted by dlairs
11 replies - last reply: "Maybe if I had daughters, they may... more" ~ dlairs

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