I'm taking a break from eons. At this point, I don't think I'll be back but never say never.
I'm a fan of on line communities, but I see the same patterns show up over and over with them. I probably should stick with those that have a single focus, rather than those that try to be all things to all people.
I spend much of my free time with adolescents. Three in particular, many more as it usually turns out because they are like little magnets that attract each other. A lot of that time is spent dealing with adolescent issues, naturally, and because of that I sometimes feel the need to have some "me time" with adults. I get it at work, and when I can squeeze it in with friends.
Perhaps I'm adding to the adolescent behavior here. I'm willing to take my share of the blame. But I'm done with it. I don't like what I see. It started early on with hate messages, but now it seems to be much more blatant and shows up in all places and I don't need it. I don't need to attract it, I don't need to counter it, and I don't need to spend the few hours I have to myself participating in juvenile games. Enough time is spent being the referee in the real world for that kind of thing.
Be well.
Break
posted 3 months ago
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- 1. 3 months ago feywon wrote:
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Sorry to hear that, you'll be missed. i've opted out of certain groups, and there are some blogs i go past quickly...knowing the unpleasant feelings they'll evoke.
You've been one of my favorite bloggers to read even as the blogs have become less frequent. From where i sit you brought some intelligence, humor and artistry to your posts.
Wishing you and your family the best.
- 2. 3 months ago okhela wrote:
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My dear friend, take a break if you need to rejuvenate. I fully understand that need. I've had to do it several times in my lifetime. But, I entreat you, don't leave the field of battle. There is no chance for a positive future for America if individuals like yourself can be discouraged by the opposition. I understand the toll it takes on one's psyche. But those adolescents you spend time with will have a much diminished quality of life without your involvement in what kind of America they will inherit. So, refill that spiritual cup of your soul. Renew the humane nature you embody. Then, return to the fray refreshed. I'll take my break when you return.
Be well, my friend.
