I am not a victim but a survivor of Fibromyalgia. There are approximately 9 Million people diagnosed with Fibromyalgia. Of those 20% are men.
There is no simple test available for diagnosis. Evaluation by a skilled medical professional, usually a rheumatologist, consists of ruling out other medical conditions with similar symptoms, such as rheumatoid arthritis, polymyalgia rheumatica, Lyme disease and lupus. The physician should take an extensive medical history followed by a physical examination that includes the application of pressure to specific anatomical points known to be particularly sensitive in sufferers.
There is no known cure..

My own thoughts on Fibromyalgia:

1. I save money on magazines. With brain fog I can't remember what I've just read.

2. On good days I feel wonderful; other people need a much better day to feel that good.

3. I'm easy to find; I'm at home or the doctors' office.

4. I never have to make my bed; I'll be back in it my the afternoon.

5. I have acquired a great lounging/sleeping wardrobe; I rarely get dressed.

6. I feel smarter than my doctors; all they say is "I don't know"