This past week I had lunch with a group of former co-workers. There were 5 of us.We're all retired now. The first person in the group to retire did so in 2001. The last was yours truly in Dec.' 05. We get together as a group once or twice a year. A couple of the women have become good friends of mine. We had a wonderful afternoon. It went by too fast.
In all the catching up, sharing, listening, & laughter, the subject of boredom came up. Someone in the group said she keeps herself busy in retirement but sometimes she gets so bored. I have said many times since retiring I NEVER am bored. There's so much to do. Even though I'm alone a lot, boredom just doesn't occur for me. Others in the group had similar remarks.
Today I realized in part why I don't ever feel bored. It was a beautiful warm day on the campus where I've been taking classes & workshops the past 2 years in a Lifelong Learning group for retired professionals. The trees & flowers were an array of color & fragrances. Some of the students were dressed in shorts. There was a 2 hour gap between my classes since the one I usually go to in that time slot was cancelled. I didn't have much to read with me so I sat in the shade organizing my stash of original photos I had packed for my Watercolor group. When I finished that task there was still another hour to wait, so I pulled out some paper & a pen & began to sketch. There were a great number of subjects around me to choose from.
My friend's comment about boredom came to my mind. I realized what a wonderful thing it is to have the ability & the desire to do art. It's something I've always loved since I was about 10 years old when I first realized I could draw anything I set my mind to work at.
Now if only I could figure out how NOT to be lonely sometimes. That would make my life absolutely - almost - PERFECT !
An Almost Perfect Life
posted 2 months ago
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- 1. 2 months ago gardenlady110 wrote:
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I think everyone has those "not-so-perfect" times, whether they experience it as boredom, loneliness or something else. It's nothing that we are doing wrong, it's just human nature.
Usually, to me anyway, it indicates something is out of balance somewhere. It's the perfect time to maybe jump in and do something you've wanted to do but haven't yet. Or maybe you need a little R&R. In any case you're in good company my friend!