As I have posted before, I often read about people being “bored” in retirement, or claiming that they plan to work forever because otherwise they wouldn’t know what to do with themselves. I can’t comprehend a life so empty and lacking in imagination that it would be reduced to such a pitiful state.
I generally just stay home for “vacations”. In fact, one of my best vacations ever was a few years ago when my wife was out of town for a week, and I took off from work at the same time. At the end of the week I suddenly realized that without planning it I had just spent 5-days with absolutely zero interaction with another human being. I was simply puttering around the house and amusing myself with a variety of personal hobbies and activities at home, and for an entire week I had had neither the need nor desire to step off our property for anything. I hadn’t even gone out to a store, and it was great.
I do think that when I retire I will impose a little “structure” to my life. I don’t think it would be good to wake up every day with no clue as to what you will do. I think that I would draw up a schedule for a regular daily routine and try to establish a pattern to it (6AM-7AM read the paper; 7AM-9AM houseclean; etc). I would probably even define weekly or monthly plans with goals to reach, such as a list of “home-improvement projects for this month”, or a monthly “local tourist attraction visit”.
My major hobbies are photography, gardening and I own, though currently rarely play several musical instruments (all of these are solitary pursuits). I also enjoy cooking, and I would love to have more time to clean and fix up our house nicer. Some of the ways I can see myself spending my time are;
Daily Activities
Walking/Exercising (1-2hr)
Reading newspapers/books (1-2hr)
General housecleaning (1-2hr)
Cooking (1-2hr)
Surfing the Web/learning stuff (Wikipedia etc; 1hr+)
Blogging/Interacting with others on-line (Eons, Flickr etc;1hr+)
Playing music (piano, dulcimer, electronic; 1-2hr)
Rotating Activities (weekly estimates)
Taking Photographs (10hr)
Processing photographs on computer/printer (10hr)
Gardening (10 months; 3-4hr/day x 4days/week = 12-16hr)
Home projects/repairs (2-10hr)
Exploring local “attractions” (2-4hr)
Other Options...
Take formal classes in Photography (find out what I’ve been doing wrong for the last 35 years)
Take formal classes in Gardening (Longwood Gardens offers classes I’d love to have the time to take)
Take Classes toward (and become a?) Certified Financial Planner. (Not only interesting, but it could be extremely useful in personal affairs, even if I don’t get a “job” doing it.)
Volunteer at the local Senior Center and/or hospice (I used to volunteer at the SC, and my wife currently works with a local hospice).
With all of this waiting for me, I just don’t know how I find the time to work for a living. I also can’t imagine how anyone could be bored with life just because they don’t have someone telling them what to do in exchange for money (i.e. “work”).
Retirement is for Finally LIVING Life
posted about 1 month ago
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- 1. about 1 month ago JanetYas wrote:
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I "officially" retired in July 2006. However, since then, I have been working part-time for my former employer. I can work from home, and I can set my own schedule. I really have the best of both worlds. But, I do agree with you, LIFE is just too interesting to be bored. There are people to meet, books to read, new recipes to try, and all sorts of exciting adventures to experience. Best wishes for a long and interesting retirement.
- 2. about 1 month ago Bettytth wrote:
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This sounds like my planned retirement!
5 more years to go for my man and I.
Can't wait!
- 3. about 1 month ago kayakergreen wrote:
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Have to agree with Janet Y, that life is too interesting to be boring. I retired two years ago, and still can't find time to do everything. I work part time in the Jan - April time frame, set my own hours, and prepare for the summer months of kayaking, bicycling, and gardening. And who can be bored with 7 grandchildren. Would not have it any other way!
- 4. about 1 month ago wyattgrl wrote:
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I have a few years to go before retirement, John1Pa has presented some excellent ways of how to fill your time. Alot of people retire without any concrete plans on what they are going to do with the next phase of their life. I have seen people retire and the next couple of months they have "passed away.
John1Pa has the right idea. Fill your life with things to do, there is always something new and exciting to do, you just have to go look for it.
- 5. about 1 month ago brewguru wrote:
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I've been retired since 1979, so long it seems like I never worked,I do not have unlimited funds, but I've got an abundance of time, and never had a problem using it.
Some structure is OK, nothing stringent, I've done Chili cookoffs,Dart Tournements, Parade organization, Dance Contests, Food Tastings, Gold Mining and Assaying, Home Brewing and Judging,pretty much a lot of things I knew nothing about before I retired. You can take some part time jobs doing stuff you wouldn't even consider before, and they can be fun because you don't really need them. I loaded tourist luggage on airplanes one summer just long enough for me to lose 10lbs..You will view things differently, not as chores, but interesting experiences. Its a new life
- 6. about 1 month ago ChucksJerseyGal wrote:
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I've heard people say that also.I feel sorry for them that can't think of things to do.Being an artist and working full time at my shift work job, I can't wait to retire. I can enter more shows, workshops and contest.
I plan all of my vacations just relaxing at home. I just spent spring break on vacation, so my 14 year old daughter and I stayed home and did noting together. We played cards, watched DVDs(We are the only people on earth that don't have a TV). We trained/played with the dogs. We spent as many hours as we wanted on our computers. Oh, I can't wait.