Congratulations to BajaHorseLady for being chosen as the featured Week 5 submission to the Fullest Life. BajaHorseLady has adopted a fierce cry of Carpe Dieum!
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BajaHorseLady's Post:
Ever since childhood I longed for distant shores and determined at age 10 that I was going to visit the places I was learning about in school. There were so many things I wanted to be: photographer, archaeologist, sailor, scientist, equestrienne, traveler.
Well, once I left home I did them all. I went to college and majored in biochemistry. I was a deckhand and tour guide on a boat in Seattle. I moved to England and lived there for three years, traveling up and down the British Isles and spending time on archaeological digs, hobnobbing with offshoot aristocracy, reading ancient texts and listening to the echoes of my heritage. I became an equine photographer and upon turning 40, became a horse owner/trainer.
Now I live in Mexico. I have discovered a rich and colorful culture where I learned Spanish from the people themselves. I have been embraced by them and have had the honor of being invited to events normally reserved only for family: births, funerals, 15 year old girls' birthday bashes (15th birthday for a girl is a rite of passage here) and meeting the Mother.
My living has largely been in the moment; I have adopted the fierce cry of Carpe Dieum! In living this way I have broken all the rules of what we "responsible adults" should do...prepare for retirement. That never made sense to me. Why spend my life doing something I hate for money when I can do several things I love at once for the money I need to get to the next step? I never did learn how to color inside the lines, which has often been an invitation for loneliness, but everything has its price. Determining if I am willing to pay the price has been amongst my greatest decisions of the moment.
Next will come my dream of being a video producer thanks to YouTube. I don't live for the money, I live for the experience. I love learning, knowing people from everywhere and seeing through their eyes. The sheer force of humanity and its traditions, survival skills, mysteries such as Stonehenge and the great Callanish Circle in Scotland, the Mayan and Aztec civilizations...oh, my! Our roots are so very important!
My life has not been about achievement, per se. It's been about seizing the opportunity presented to me in any given moment; but I suppose I've had many achievements. However, my life has only been half lived...I won't know if I've lived my fullest life until the day I draw my last breath; if I have anything undone on my list at that moment, I guess I haven't. Until then, each day is a blessing, a new opportunity to learn, a new challenge and a real adventure!
Addendum: Thanks to one of my new Eons friends, I will be visiting a new part of Mexico next week! Eons is very much a part of a full second half of my life!
Week 5: BajaHorseLady
posted 6 months ago, updated about 20 hours later
Comments
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- 1. 6 months ago CommunityGal wrote:
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Hey Baja, BIG congrats!! Loved reading this post! You go girl!
- 2. 6 months ago BajaHorseLady wrote:
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Thank you, thank you, thank you!!! This is so exciting!!!!!!
- 3. 6 months ago cloudyblue wrote:
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Baja you are such a special person and give off such a positive can do attitude that I wouldn' be surprised at anything you set your mind to do. Congratulations.YOU ROCK LADY!!!
- 4. 6 months ago richard64 wrote:
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I think you'll survive no matter what you do. Your Pal Richard.
- 5. 6 months ago Debirae wrote:
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Way to go! You are one very interesting woman, who takes everything in life and lives it to the fullest.
Bless you!
- 6. 6 months ago Gr3tch3n wrote:
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Terrific life and even better attitude! You are truly a model for a hugely FULL life, with each and every day bringing new experiences and adventures to you. Congratulations on the recognition! And stay healthy!
Gretchen
- 7. 6 months ago wannabentenn wrote:
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I expected no less from you...:) You go Girl, and the World is YOURS.....I can't wait to read more blogs from you...Dale
- 8. 6 months ago takinitez wrote:
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Way to go girl!!! Everyone here at SOUTH OF THE BORDER wishes you well, and loves knowing that you will share your victory on the site!!! FELICIDADES
- 9. 6 months ago HAE wrote:
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Congratulations and well done. Interesting live and essay.
- 10. 6 months ago Archer100 wrote:
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What shines through your words is your courage. Most of us are afraid to stick our necks out that far. While we may have retirement savings, our lives certainly don't have such zest and I'm sure we're all a little envious of your colorful experiences. Congrats and best wishes.
- 11. 6 months ago oceanpagan wrote:
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What our Baja possesses is an old-fashioned wandering soul, a need to learn, and do, and share. She is so brave, and is blessed with a first quality heart and gives generously to all every day of her life. She is always lifting others up, even when she feels herself to be in the depths, she never quits thinking of others. I admire you so much, dear friend, and know that in another life, another time, you were an adventurer, an explorer, a seeker.
- 12. 6 months ago Meeker wrote:
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With a spirit of adventure life is great. I admire your achievements. You have lived 'the good life' all the way. The second half can be just as good, and mabye even better. Congratulations! . . . . Bill
- 13. 6 months ago CharmedTwoBits wrote:
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Congratualtions! Nice post....Happy for you :) Have fun!
hugs, CharmedTwoBits
- 14. 6 months ago AristoPat42 wrote:
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Long it has been to my thinking that you reign as one of the brightest stars on Eons. Your articulation, courage and example light the many paths open to us all. Congratulations are well deserved! Pat
- 15. 6 months ago Harleychick59 wrote:
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Your life is everything I wish mine was! But I guess I am too afraid to do the unexpected.I did it once and I loved it.
Fran in Florida
- 16. 6 months ago lovesreading wrote:
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Yours is truley a full and wonderful life !!!!!
- 17. 6 months ago Jeant42 wrote:
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You deserve this my friend! Congratulations.
- 18. 6 months ago LadyWillow wrote:
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You give us all the courage to persevere and live in the moment. You go girl.
Congrats for winning in this and in life.
When will the book be published?? /;)
LadyWillow
- 19. 6 months ago nanakay65 wrote:
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I so envy you. I wish I had your courage. I tried it once and paid dearly. Now I,m 66 and tremble at the thought of leaving all I know to persue a dream. You go girl! I admire you so much.
- 20. 6 months ago warriorxena wrote:
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There's a 31-year-old woman in my Master's Cohort who always mentions how terrible it is to be in debt (financially) and how her parents never made much money because they were teachers. I wish she could read what you have written. It's all about attitude, spirit and courage, which you have plenty of, my dear. (And, seizing the day!) Kudos! Keep living well.
- 21. 6 months ago heartintexas wrote:
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I am envious of your courage and oh MY what a life you have lived. You deserve the recognition and thanks for sharing.
- 22. 6 months ago silverscreennyc wrote:
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It sound like you have a great life!!! 2 questions:
How do you support yourself(horses are expensive)?
Do you have a significant other to share these experiences?
- 23. 6 months ago jk31 wrote:
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Admirable and adorable
- 24. 6 months ago Rola54 wrote:
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What a great inspiration and adventuresome spirit you have. When I'm feeling down, I will come to Eons to get uplifted by people such as you.
- 25. 6 months ago BajaHorseLady wrote:
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To silverscreennyc: I support myself and my horses. It's easier in Mexico to do so. Since my horses are my main love and my motivation to overreach myself in any given moment, I don't have a significant other. At times i wished I so, but then who needs the arguments? I am like my horses...can't be caught, can't be tamed.
- 26. 5 months ago Gloria1954 wrote:
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Hey SIS!!!!!
Great, you know you have my vote!
Gloria
