hey you!...SOS-me.com...yeah you...
just where is my
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this is in reference to my "catch and release" blog...posted 10 months ago...updated 12/07/07...
i deleted the blog as a result of finding the following on another singles (SOS-me.com)
site's home page...being used without my permission...the blog contained the necessary copyright intent indicator...i have yet to receive a response to my email...
this blog was a very personal one for me...and it really was kinda good... :)...so it did cause me some discomfort when i had to remove my words that i shared freely with you here on eons...it was like having to destroy one of my paintings...plus it had some great comments posted by you guys!...if you would like to read it...you're curious now, aren't ya?... :)...just send me a private message and i'll forward to you...
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To: customerservice@SOS-me.com
Subject: regarding the use of an article...
Date: Nov 25, 2007 2:34 AM
"Articles are here!
We welcome your "singles" stories here!
Are you single and approaching holiday time? Is it a blessing or are you dreading
the time alone? Are you a single parent who has to share your kids with the other
side of the family? How do you cope with that? Are you newly single?
We welcome articles that explore these subjects and offer good, solid advice about
the singles experience. If we chose your article, you'll receive an SOS-me
product gift basket to share with single friends you know. But the best part is
that you'll be spreading joy by sharing your story with others.
Do you have something to say about the single experience?
On-line dating - hilarious!
A funny, witty review of the online dating experience from an over 50 Eons member.
Check out her profile on www.eons.com ("didi1213".) Does this sound like
you? Join Eons.com today and make some great connections with other boomers"
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...imagine my surprise when i found this article on your website...being used without
my permission...and directing folks to my profile on eons.com...so please explain...the real issue here is using my written word without my permission to enhance your website and business...i would
appreciate a response...
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sooo...no more miss nice didi...she's getting ready to rumble... :)...i'll keep you updated...
ciao for now...and have a great holiday season!...didi...
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UPDATE...i came across an eons article posted by, sue west, an eons contributor...(are eons contributors paid?)..."making the world safe for singles"...sue west started SOS-me.com...here is a link to that article...viewlink...
i posted the following comment to that article...
hi sue...here's a link to my latest blog...
"let's get ready to rumble"...viewlink...
i'm puzzled and concerned that the website...
sos-me.com...would think it was ok to use my blog without my permission...i sure would appreciate a response posted here...
thanks...didi...
ps...you know the sad part about this?...if sos-me.com had asked me first....i would probably would have let them use it gladly...but now a line seems to have crossed...maybe not intentionally...but for me...it has been crossed...and what could have been a really pleasant experience isn't...ciao...
posted by didi1213 26 minutes ago
i'll let you know if i get a response...seems like i deserve one from somebody...an open apology would be nice...ciao...didi
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update...12/09/07 email exchange...
Subject: unauthorized use of didi1213's "catch and release" blog by sos-me.com
Date: Dec 9, 2007 2:47 PM
Hi susan…I received a copy of your response to the second email sent to sos-me.com
regarding the use of my blog without my permission…
First of all, let me say I hope your personal family situation has improved…and
you and yours will have a wonderful holiday season and a better 2008…life definitely
throws things at us faster than we can duck sometimes doesn’t it?…it did for me
in the past...and I’m still ducking on an occasional basis…I guess that’s just the
way it goes for all of us…each of us has to deal the best we can…
So by my saying this to you, you must realize how important my ability to express
myself through my written thoughts is to me…that being able to do that has given
me a "sense of self" back that had been stolen from me in the past by
others in different ways….and that seeing it used by another website without my
permission did not sit well with me…a part of me had been stolen again…plus there
was the issue of directing anyone that came to your website to go "check out didi1213”
at eons.com…I definitely felt that was an issue that should have discussed with
me prior to being placed on your website…
eons had and has been what I consider…my
safe place…what sos-me.com/you did changed a part of that for me…and I don’t like
that…once again…a part of me had been stolen…
The one thing I still don’t understand is your comment “I received the article you
speak of and allowed it to be placed in my story section”…
How exactly did you receive this article?...who sent you my blog?...i certainly
did not…because if I had I probably would have been thrilled that you had chosen
it to be used…as I said before, if I had been asked up front…my answer would probably
been…”yes, use my blog!”…but the issue here is you didn’t…and I still have no answer
to who/how was my written word stolen…and I feel I deserve to know that…not only
for myself but for others who share parts of themselves on any venue such as eons.com…and
I will await your response to that question…How did you receive my blog?...
In the meantime I will make you aware that a copy of this letter is being posted
on eons.com as part of my continuing blog posted regarding the stolen "catch
and release blog of didi1213"…
I await your reply susan…
didi1213
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i would like to say that several comments originally posted here have been removed at either the request of the poster or by myself after receiving the initial response from susan stating this was not done for her website's profit...but to help other singles...the question remains...how did she get my blog?...
sos-me.com website was cancelled either yesterday evening or this am...however, they can still be found on myspace...here is the link...
viewlink...the is shown as being a 47 y/o female located in MA...what that means?...i dunno... :)...
the original boom for this blog submitted by rochellerochelle yesterday seems to have been dropped...or perhaps lost in a glitch...and that happens...so i just want to thank everyone for your
interest and comments posted here...i'll let you know when i receive a response from susan...
now...i'm going to have some sunday fun...you guys go do the same thing!...ciao...didi
© 2007...stop stealing my stuff!...
