Thanks for encouraging me CG to keep my hand in on this blog. I've actually started e-mailing someone I met here at Eons. No, not from 50+singles! He only contributed briefly on the Disability group. I must say the correspondence has been very nice. I still have a fear of revealing too much personal data, although I feel I've been very open in all the areas I have talked about. I guess I feel more vulnerable being a woman. We hear so many horror stories. I hate to admit that I still regard his openess with caution. I do want to continue building on this ? relationship. The other thing is that He's 5 yrs my junior. I wish I had someone to help me with this ? of trust online. I think I'll consult one of the gals in my group who has longtime experience online. I did after all maike the initial contact. I hope that is a plus as far as eliminating some of the concern about cons. He should be the one who's more reluctant I guess.