I have been a primary caregiver for my ex-mother-in-law for about 10 years now. She has a variety of severe health issues, not the least of which is alzheimer's disease. She is at early stage 6 at this point. She'll be 76 in about two weeks. I am curious how long a life span someone in her situation is likely to have? I know this sounds mercinary, but I'm tired of this job, on top of a full-time job and desire to have more time for myself. I hear of people with alzheimer's dying in just a six month period. She seems happy, satisfied with life, and baring a meteorite hitting her house, it seems she'll live forever. I think I could deal with thing better if I had some sense of the length of time I'm still looking at here....2 years? 12 years? 20 years? How long does someone live by the time they hit stage 6, typically? I know this sounds awful, but I just want to see a light at the end of the tunnel. This is not a very fulfilling job that has come to me, and which I will not surrender.


posted by Maran
My name is Maran and I found your blog via a post you made on the Careers Forum.
Your situation really touched my heart.
And I have no idea what the answer to your question is, I'm thinking no one really knows.
What kinds of things could give you relief while she is still here?
Can she live somewhere else?
Caring for an alzheimers patient is an awesome burden and doing it by yourself!
Please look at what kinds of supports you can put in place.
You are still young and you are entitled to enjoy your life.
be well, and
Remember, Who You Are Makes A Difference!
Maran
The Card Gal From Jax Beach
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posted by Kaui
Suggest you get her into assisted care, medicare will cover this.
You can still visit and take care for her as you like, but the burden is off and you can have a life too. Contact you local county visiting nurse association to begin this process.
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