I certainly appreciate those who are getting out of the closet...I've found that when I'm in a closet hiding from someones significant other...they're hot & stuffy...crowded too...But having a lot of VERY GOOD Friends who are either Gay or Bi, as well as a large Gay following for the road band... I appreciate this group "Switching Teams" honesty...Not a Broke-Back Mountain Individual Myself...It was a very good romance story...and Yes...I really enjoyed "TRANSAMERICA" and "BIRD CAGE" is One of My FAVORITE all time movies...But I have way too much invested in Alimony ~ Child Support ~ College Educations ~ Mortgages and "Hetero" dating and rejection, to try the other side at this age...Maybe I missed the boat...Most All of my Gay Friends are Very Well-To-Do...and the money I could have saved!...But that was then...I'm a Shade Tree Mechanic and Specialize in Automatics...not stick shifts...Yes, I have been speculated to be an Old QUEEN...from people with small minds and even smaller self confidence...But those of you who are or are considering, remember to be courteous.