From sizzling sparks and secret pacts to broken hearts, love escapes definition. It's an experience; an evolving process. Words are inadequate, incomplete and sometimes irrelevant to love. Instead of attempting to define what your relationship is, consider where you are in your relationship. . . .

Where are you?
Connecting- You have a positive emotional reaction or curiousity when you think of or are in the presence of this specific person.
Clarifying - You have a connection with this person and you both are concentrating and/or deciding what your relationship will or will not be.
Commited - You are enjoying each other now and building a future.

Love is many things but it is not a linear journey. Do you want to be where you are now? Where would you like your relationship to go and how soon do you want to get there?

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