Planning HI Move but have 2 tell folks.

How do I tell my folks of my HI move.

The pluses are:

Theyve been to Maui over the years, know area.
Im going with someone.
Its EZier to make relationships there vs CA
Id be a Local.
Everyone knows everyone.
Live Life.

The negatives:
Finances for Move
Income post move?
Finding job.

Im 55 SWM, Aspergers Syndrome.

Living at home with parents in add on.

My folks do U have plans when they move to Retirement village Id get a 1/3rd of the home value when sold & when they leave & thus Id have to Leave.

My dads in his 80s, mom is 70s.

What do I do?

What would U do?

Wait,

Plant seed.

I dont know date for HI move anyway.

Id move to Oahu.

How should I approach this?