For us to enjoy and have all the things that God intends for us to have, we first have to come to Him as a child! When things happen to children, they are quick to forgive, forget, and pursue things that will bring them joy and happiness. We as Christians, have to do the same!
Here are some thoughts, borrowed from The Joyce Meyer Ministries, that make alot of sense to me, and alot of others. I pray these will help you.

Ask yourself, "What are my strengths", not my weaknesses!

Remember, the devil NEVER reminds you of the good things in your life, only the BAD! He tries to make you dwell on the bad and never see the good!

The things we hide in darkness, is what has power over us! Let them out! Leave them at the Cross, and forget them!

Most of the time, we think too highly of ourselves, and less of others.

We won't get what we want or what God wants us to have, as long as we are jealous of others!

Be open! Get Real!

Confess to one another and be healed!

Let God add His "SUPER" to our natural!

Remember, that He is pleased with us as long as we have our minds on Him in ALL things!

Have the joy in your life that God intends for you to have in your life! TRUST GOD IN ALL THINGS!