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Midwinter Moods

posted about 13 hours ago by silvergirl28 | 2 comments
December approaches, the amount of daylight quietly surrenders

Winter night fades into winter morning, daylight creeps up the pale sky among whispering bare tree branches

No birdsong or busy insects greet the young day

Low light and long shadow...

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I'm Not Asking You To Lie . . .

posted 1 day ago by silvergirl28 | 1 comment
When someone asks your opinion, resist their given permission to judge-
Q: Does this shirt make my stomach look bad?
A: It looks huge.
A: No, not at all.

Sometimes the best way to connect with someone is to suport and tell them your opinion, ...

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Quoted

posted 6 days ago by silvergirl28 | 0 comments
"Action is the antidote to despair." - Joan Baez

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Looking For Love in All the Right Places

posted 7 days ago, updated about 3 hours later by silvergirl28 | 3 comments
If you want a new relationship or to improve your current relationship, think of the what you want in a partner. . .

Independence? - check,

Good listening skills? - check,

Loves kids? -check,

Has a yacht? - huh?

Do you have a fantasy idea o...

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What's Over the Line For You?

posted 8 days ago by silvergirl28 | 0 comments
"You don't like me or you would do it for me." (Guilt)

"It's okay, smoke this weed. Nobody will know." (Secrecy)

"I'd really appreciate it if you would stay and work late again." (Imposition)

These are boundary issues. Attempted manipulation...

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Not Just Another Tall Tale

posted 12 days ago by silvergirl28 | 0 comments
The Emperor With New Clothes would have benefited greatly from using a personal coach. When asked "Do you like my new clothes?" the coach would respond, "What clothes? You have no clothes." No judgement, no anger, no hidden agenda.

A coach will ...

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Who You Calling Self Centered?

posted 14 days ago by silvergirl28 | 0 comments
When was the last time you watched a leaf make its way downstream and get caught up in the flow of a river? The leaf might swirl in circles for several seconds or minutes before breaking free, being dragged under or snagging along the bank. Or it ...

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See You Later Hater

posted 15 days ago by silvergirl28 | 1 comment
A simple and effective way to reduce negative emotions when thinking of someone you do not get along with is to separate the behavior from the person. Break them up. Think of the behavior and then think about the person. This moment of reflection ...

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Cheerleading v. Coaching

posted 19 days ago by silvergirl28 | 0 comments
Have you ever been sidelined? Felt a little left out? Have you been an observer when you would like to be a participant? If you feel that you want more in your life but don't have the foggiest idea about how to achieve it, I understand. I am here ...

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Quoted

posted 20 days ago by silvergirl28 | 1 comment
"You need chaos in your soul to give birth to a dancing star." - Nietzsche

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